Modify top horizontal menu

[D-bird]

I already asked a question considering this problem here but that topic can be deleted.

I'm having problems with modifying the top horizontal menu, breadcumbs and cms categories/pages. Pretty difficult to explain but I'll try my best  

 

I have:

 

1. a product category TAILORED SUITS

 

2. a CMS category SUITS

• Style
• Fabric
• Tailoring

3. a CMS subcategory FABRIC (below SUITS)

• Plain
• Pinstripe
• etc..

 

 

Here's what I'd like to have in top horizontal menu:

Parent: TAILORED SUITS

• Style
• Fabric
• Tailoring

But this is what I have right now:

 

Parent: SUITS

• Fabric (and below this Plain, Pinstripe etc.. I would like to have only two level menu)
• Style
• Fabric
• Tailoring

 

And in the breadcrumbs, when I'm on page Style, I'd like to have this:

Home > Tailored suits > Style

 

Instead I have this:
Home > Suits > Style

 

 

 

Or when I'm on Fabric Pinstripe page, I'd like to have this:

Home > Tailored Suits > Fabric > Pinstripe

 

But instead I have this:
Home > Suits > Fabric > Pinstripe

 

 

 

So I wouldn't like to have the CMS categories in breadcrumbs at all because there is no content in those pages.

Any help would be much appreciated! I'm starting to be desperate  Is this even possible to achieve?

[D-bird]

Damn.. once again, if I could have PRODUCT CATEGORY as a CMS CATEGORY these problems would be solved